You are better off waiting'till you get married before doing anything stupid.
你如果想做傻事的话,最好等到结婚后。
Sigh. He doesn't even know I'm alive.
啊啊,他一直都不知道我还活着。
There are even stories of half-trained elephant calves who have refused to feed and pined to death when by some unavoidable circumstance they have been deprived of their own trainer.